some people think and they said it is easy to through the pain you have. but it's not as easy as they said. it's not about only how to letting him/her go but it's also how to not to come back to the past. the things that keep reminds you of the past is all those memories you've had. for the boy usually, this way is too much easy and i have no idea why, but for the girl especially who had been hurted, this is too hard to do. don't try too hard but don't ever look back too. here are some tips from me to moving on from your crush or the pain.
1. try to be opened. with this way, you might be meet and come closer with some girl/boy, so you can forget your crush at least for a while.
2. don't ever look back. you've lost something that not even yours, so keep thinking that you'll be have the god future and the good tomorrow.
3. keep yourself busy. you might be have some positive activities such as do a sports, music or anything else, even just to hanging out with your friends you can forget your crush.
4. don't stay up at night. stay up at night might be suddenly remind you of your crush so be careful if you're going to up at night, don't ever thinking over about your crush.
5. forget the memories. maybe this is the hardest thing to do. forget those memories is not as easy as they said. this means you have to not to going to the place that reminds you of your crush, or somewhere or do something reminds you of them. just no.
6. make it comfort. make the comfort situation whenever you at. in this part, you have to be comfortable with new friends that can keep you come closer.
7. think about his bad habits. yeah, with this way you have to think that he has a bad habit that maybe can hurt you. such as if he's too cold or something like he's like to fart and you gets irritated.
well this is too short but seriously, don't try too hard but don't look at back. this thing might be help you but i know this is still far away from the perfectness, lol. thanks
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